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Oct12
When is online gaming too much for a married man?
Filed under: Gaming Online Cheats; Tagged as: Game, Housework, Married Man, Online Gaming, Work Fulltime10 Comments
10 Responses to “When is online gaming too much for a married man?”
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Anytime, but thats not to say he can’t indulge from time to time, as long as you get some play time for yourself.
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SESHADRI K October 17th, 2009 at 5:17 am
Let him play war games! I extend my warm hands for a powerful married life!
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Suzanne October 18th, 2009 at 10:56 am
My bachelor brother had that problem with Everquest – he’s over 40 also – he called it Evercrack! And actually, one of his married friends had the same problem – you say non-stop – do you really mean non-stop? It’s probably like an addiction then and he should quit cold turkey – my brother literally did that. Threaten to take the computer to goodwill if he doesn’t knock it off! And then do it if he doesn’t stop.
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ballerfamily29 October 20th, 2009 at 12:32 am
I **** WORLD OF WARCRAFT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my husband does the same thing right after *** straight to that dam game, it almost ended our marriage. I was so mad i deleted off the computer and broke the disk so he couldn’t play. He doesn’t play anymore, but the game is very very additive. You are so right to tell him that you’ll leave him if he doesn’t stop playing. take a look at this website, its kinda funny the wawow stands for women against world off warcraft. !!
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Rapscallion Account #2 October 23rd, 2009 at 6:42 am
Hey didnt you know that being uber leet and getting awsome phat lewtz is more important then wife and ***?? Sheesh, c’mon, get with the program!
ok ok, here is what you do.. he goes to bed when you wake up right? Well.. unhook the computer, put it in the trunk of your car. Call up your internet provider and cancel service. Hop in the car drive 300 miles away and toss the computer into a dumpster, making sure to break it in to a few hundred pieces. When he calls up and asks in a panic what happened to the computer, tell him that the lich king stole it.
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Shelley October 24th, 2009 at 1:32 am
You have to be firm with him and make him understand how ticked off you are.
I am sorry…but you have to be cruel to me kind. I think you have hit the nail on the head here…the issue is that he is unemployed.
Whilst he keeps playing games and not looking for work and helping around the house, matters will only get worse.
He is probably experiencing a ‘lack of confidence’ and needs a kick up the backside…so to speak to put him back on track. Otherwise, I **** to say it, by continuing to play games he may seek further into some sort of depression.
Good luck.
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gaming is an artificial sense of accomplishment. And all men need a sense of accomplishment to feel good about themselves. Urge him to meet up with buddies by himself outside of the house. Although video games suffice our internal needs, it’s a bit hard to prove how much better off the world is because of what we’ve accomplished in a video game. And besides what’s a few hours away from the house, if his home time turns into quality time.
If he returns to the game, he didn’t spend enough time out of the house, send him on more missions and praise him ever more with phrases used in the game so he can appreciate his real life accomplishments for himself. -
sounds like he has become addicted. he needs professional help, but first he needs to stop making excuses and admit to his problem. tell him your ready to call it quits. and really make him understand that if he doesnt stop and get a job that you WILL call it quits. i was in the same position. i can tell you exactly how it plays out. first the excuses, then he will get defensive and try to make you the bad guy to get off of the subject of his addiction and how its ruining your marriage, mine even blamed me for his addiction to the games and tried to make me feel guilty about it. then you will get fed up and leave. unless he is willing to see his problem there is nothing you can do. for my husband it was just a “hobby”. and it was my problem because i didnt have hobbies. meanwhile, i was taking care of our 2 children and the whole house, so there wasnt any time for any hobby i may have. because if he was home, he was playing that game.
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Nikki ? October 30th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
I’ve heard a lot of stories about people cheating on their SO on that game. In fact my ex cheated on me with someone from that game, it’s a good thing I wasn’t with him that long and I found out right away.
Im not saying your husband is cheating but it does sound like he needs to get into some therapy, because when it gets to the point in where he doesn’t have a job then it’s gone bad.
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You’re the one with the job.
Don’t pay for him game, if he isn’t going to tend to your needs as a husband.
